To be honest, we all have to admit at some point in our PUA career – getting laid is piss easy.
I used to think of it as the most challenging thing in the world, until I was SNL’ing girl after girl.
You don’t need to build deep attraction to get punani. Seriously, all you need is to be able to LEAD and the PUSH at the right TIMING. Thats all. Easy for me to say – I’ve spent years trying to figure this out. But one day it just came to me – its difficult to simplify a complex idea – but once you can PLAY IT SIMPLE – thats when you realize you’ve achieved excellence. The same goes for sports, business, etc – Simplicity is Power.
Now, there’s a great wall of China in front of me called “building deep emotional connections”.
I can bang a girl. But to make her remember me as the “man whom I really connected with on a deeper level” and to make her say after years, “I really want to see him again, and experience those feelings” – that is MASTERY OF PUA. Thats when you can really call yourself a MASTER PUA. And thats exactly what I need to become.
Little Emotional Connection can still get you laid though
Completely true – you don’t need that deep level of connection to get pussy…once. But to continually have pussy come back to you endlessly without effort – that is ONLY established with emotional connections. At the back of our minds, we always feel more content, safer, and more relaxed with meeting people we know – people who we’ve shared an experience with. And with PUA, since you are moving things so quickly – the question then becomes – “how can you create that deep connection with the girl in the shortest period possible”. I believe its important to build it early on in the relationship – so it highers your chances for a D2, D3, and so on so forth.
Thinking back, perhaps the reason why I’ve had so many women fuck and dump me, is because I didn’t establish that connection with the woman. She didn’t wanna come back to see me any more. There’s several reasons to that – but really thinking back, I had sex before that emotional connection was made. On attraction alone. You need to work on COMFORT for ever-lasting sex. Seduction is seriously the easiest step in PUA (at least to me).
How do you build that deep emotional connection?
Simple – QUESTIONS AND FEEDBACK.
There’s routines to help out but they’re unnecessary. You simply ask questions that she associates strong emotions to, and build rapport by giving her a positive emotional feedback – and to show her you feel her pain, pleasure, joy, sadness, etc.
Me: To come to where I am now, I had to go through a lot of shit, and some painful experiences. I mean, I see you as someone who’s more mature at your age, and even though you’re a positive girl, I’m sure there’s some things that you’ve gone through – ones which you’re still latching onto. Tell me, whats that one thing you regret most in your life.
Her: When I was in high school blah blah blah
Me: So tell me, how did that make you feel, what have you gained from that, what would you change from now on based on that experience, how does that make you feel, etc
[after response] Me: I completely feel you – being the genuine and honest girl that you are, it must have been really difficult making that decision. I think you really have some courage to have made that decision and I respect someone with that courage.
The question and feedback you’ve used really got you to dig deep into her mind and emotions. She’s shared (invested) that information she wouldn’t share with anyone else. She now trusts you more, she feels closer, and therefore feels more comfortable around you. Of course, putting her in that state of mind where she WANTS to share that information with you – is equally as important.
From now onwards, after building that fluff attraction (which I’m ver good at), I’ll work on building COMFORT at a deep level. To really interact with her and get into her fucking mind. To make her share things about her she would never share with anyone else.
Deep Attraction Routine: