There’s been a lot of updates recently: Bootcamp with Root, Experiment with making girls pay for meals, Experiment with asking girls out, Being asked out, etc.
Paying for dates
I’ve pussied out on numerous occasions, but I just learned a whole new dynamic to the situation when girls pay for my meals. My experiment is simple – take out all the bills out of my wallet, take a girl out for dinner, and then make her pay for the entire meal. IF she’s a nice girl and is also willing to come home with me – pay her there. IF she’s an ass, make her pay, pull her home and see if she’s compliant – if not, I still get a free meal.
I still do not have enough data to make conclusions or trends, but there was a fascinating dynamic when I made the girl pay. First of all, if you do this early on in the relationship or the first date/SDL – it sets a frame where the girl invests money on you. Second, when you eventually pay her half the bill, it also sets the frame where she’s expected to pay her half. I also mixed this in with the story, “my business was going well till recently, and it’s gone down so I’m doing a part-time job. I’m short of cash, but I’m gonna hustle and make things happen again” – DHV for a successful risk taker, and also empathy for being a little broke.
Women, in their innate biology – have the urge to nurture and support. So when a man’s in trouble, given they’re attracted to you, will go through means to support the man.
I’ve only experimented on two girls (D2, D3) – so I need more data. I’m especially excited to try this on older girls who have the hard expectation that men should pay (and also may be less DTF). And also hot girls (HB8+) who think they can get away with anything.
The underlying psychology behind making girls pay is this; money is a universal unit that underlines the time, effort, and love we feel towards something. All things being equal, a fan that pays $1000 for a Justin Bieber concert is more in love with him, than someone who pays $100. When people pay for something, they also expect something in return. Thats why a lot of men pay for dates – because they expect the girl to put out for sex.
Using that theory – we can also assume that, when someone pays for something, they have more emotional stake over it. If you buy Google Shares, you naturally start liking Google, and will want them to succeed. By making a girl pay for a date, she invests her hard earned money and time, and will want something back in return. There will be a feeling of discomfort if she’s at loss. She’s invested money in this guy, so she must like him. She’s not just gonna see this guy off after dinner, she’s going to follow him to see what he has to give back.
Btw, if money is not much of a concern, I don’t think anyone should take part in this experiment, because life is just so much easier when you don’t care about $. Otherwise go on cafe dates to save $ and worry.
Experiment with asking girls out
6th bang of the year – she was hot and munchkin, nice enough to experiment with the “asking her out” for the purpose of LTR’ing her. There’s something interesting about the “explicit” idea of being a boyfriend/girlfriend. That title is so superficial, and I’ve avoided it for a very long time. It’s all worked out well for 85%+ girls, but for a few munchkins, I banged them once, and then they were gone.
Seconds before I banged this girl, as I was rubbing the tip of my hard cock on this girls’ clitoris, I told her: “you want to go out with me” – she was being shy, and refused to answer. Then I said, in a dominant congruent tone, “you do”. To which she replied yes. I sealed the deal, “okay, we are going to go out (bf/gf)”.
Then penis went in. Well, it was her first time so it didn’t just BLOOP, but yeah after some pleasurable struggle, it was in. Ended up banging her 4 times in the space of 2hrs. I was so exhausted, I sent her back home, and then fainted on my bed.
Gonna keep doing this experiment to see if “CERTAIN” types of girls who are more innocent and pure – respond well to this BF/GF thing. And as a result, will keep coming back for more as compared to a “sex buddy” girls tend to label on guys they aren’t officially dating. LOL. Oh Japan the country of superficiality.
Being asked out
I just had the fortune (misfortune) of getting asked out by a girl who I really enjoy spending time with, and someone I really like. The only catch is, she isn’t hot. And she’s 23. Long past her prime. 23 is like a woman going on menopause. Back in the more animalistic age, she should have 3~4 kids by the time she’s 23.
But she’s one of the nicest girls I’ve ever been with, and I love being with her – so I told her, because of my age, I only date girls who I’m certain I want to marry. And I’m not currently considering marriage because I still want to be free.
This girl is so genuinely nice and warm that it pains me to have her fall in love with me. Because I’m on a mission to conquer as many hot punani’s as I can – which isn’t the best image on the planet, probably contrary to her hard core values.
Eventually may have to let her go if it will hurt her, or hurt my mission.
Bootcamp with Root
I had the opportunity to give Root a bootcamp. Very motivated guy, willing to open any sets, stop any girl, and run back into set after he failed. Being resilient is one of the successful traits of a good PUA. Also ended up with a NC. Interested to see how he’ll progress in the coming months and years.
I was also able to observe and appreciate the “beginner mindset” where every set is a challenge, its heart-beating, and you’re learning so quickly, and progressing in every approach. By challenging him to open the hardest sets, I also felt I was soft on myself when I’m on my own – it got me to shift the way I feel about myself and the situation and the world when I’m gaming – and realize, its not that bad after all. After the bootcamp, opening sets in awkward situations became a lot easier. I believe this is what I need in my current stage to become better at game – teach other people game.
He was also able to meet Legend – the best gaijin gamer in Japan – and perhaps even the world. We were also able to observe Legend pulling a girl off street back to his house within 5~10minutes of meeting her. His style, frame, and the way he goes about game – is more effective than RSD, Mystery, and all those commercial gamers. Legend makes no money from gaming, he doesn’t have any stake in it, he doesn’t always talk about banging a hot girl in the chats, there’s very little ego involved. He bangs because he wants to bang. He’s addicted to talking to hot girls. He knows very little about “PUA” and “Game”. The purest, cleanest gamer in that sense.